Ok.  The first thing you need to do is come back to reality.  Unless you are the perfect soul who never gives in to life’s finer things, you can find money to cut.

The first thing that comes to my mind for myself, is my terrible habit of smoking.  While I didn’t quit in my journey, it certainly was there to help motivate me to try even harder.  Another huge money waster for me was eating breakfast and lunch at my employer’s cafeteria 5 days per week.  I always said to myself, “ah its only $2 for breakfast and $3 for lunch.”  Pretty easy to do the math on this one.  I was wasting $100+ a month on this alone.  Now I bring generic cinnamon pop tarts that cost $1.25 per BOX for breakfast and bring leftovers or prepare my own lunch.  While that still costs money, I know I don’t spend half of what I used to.  Pick your poison, everyone has one, or in many cases, more than one.  This is all about sacrifice at this stage in the game.

There are countless other expenses I’m sure you could do without.  Cable TV, cell phones, etc. are all wants, not needs.  Sometimes it can be hard to distinguish the two, but again, focus.

A little story about a friend of mine…

My friend starts the conversation similar to one I’m confident you were involved with.  Not necessarily you yourself, but someone you know.

“I’m broke.  I don’t know where my money is going.  I’m telling you, I don’t shop, I don’t eat out.”  Line after line.  I knew for a fact that this person was making more money than I.  Probably even more than both me and my wife combined.  So I go into my usual pitch, to get out of the seemingly endless race, you have to sacrifice some things now to be much, much better off later.  The immediate response was “Well, there are some things I just cannot sacrifice.”  This person must have been referring to the near new truck, boat, ATV, and motorcycle they had.  This was in addition to the cars he and his significant other drove daily to work and around town.  I was floored.

The idea behind this is to get you back to reality.  Get a grip.  Make it happen.  It is up to no one but YOU.