I hear a case of living beyond your means just about daily.  The entitlement factor in this country is unreal.  You need to get realistic and buckle down your finances.

Unfortunately, most people in our society have been brought up to live beyond their means.  We are surrounded by images and videos of people living extra large lifestyles that are simply out of reason for most.  Growing up with the constant barrage of the rich and famous, has created a society that not only thinks they need this lifestyle, but think they are entitled to it.

When growing up, most teenagers spend their parents money.  Unless they are working, they are likely spending their money on frivolous things like fancy clothes and electronics.  According to statistics, only about 42% of high schoolers find paid employment.  According to the statistics, less than 50% of teens are working, so their parents are funding their popularity contest.  They are simply keeping up with the teenage Jones’s.

Unfortunately, this upbringing sets the teenagers up for failure later in life.  They are taught that at no matter what expense, they must appear to be keeping up.  This is proven by their average credit card debt of over $5,000 for age groups 25-34 year olds.  Had they been taught the value of the dollar at a younger age, perhaps the frivolous spending would have stopped.

The worst part of this ridiculous spending spree is, that age is not a factor.  The statistics are similar for just about all ages.  Many books state the same.  The more you make, the more you simply spend.  Doctors, lawyers, and the like are all chasing their tails with the fast food burger flippers just on a different scale.  If you earn $20,000 per year, maybe you spend $10,000 on keeping up with the Jones items.  If you’re making $100,000 per year, your simply spending $50,000 on most expensive Jones items.

I don’t know the Jones’.

Many people have the ability to carry the perception of being well off for long periods of time.  However, eventually, the jokes on them.  The charade is over and all that is left is the consequences of leading this type of lifestyle.  The result is usually a lifetime of debt.  I like to refer to this as chasing your tail.  You can chase it all you want, but your never going to catch it.

What you need to realize is, you need to stop buying items you don’t need on credit.  If you don’t have the cash, DON’T BUY IT.  Its that simple.  You need to learn to sacrifice for the better long term goals.  Take a serious look at your spending. Tell yourself, you don’t know the Jones’.

Here are a couple of quick tips

1.  Learn to budget and search for bargains.  If you can’t pay cash, don’t buy it.
2.  Do not give children credit cards.  They do not have the financial foundation to handle them.
3.  If you have credit card debt, call your provider to negotiate a lower rate.
4.  Pay off small balances first, then tackle the larger ones.  Remember, always pay at least the minimum though.
5.  Once you’re out of debt, don’t go chasing your tail again, stay out of debt!